When the heart breaks!

Heartbreak is painful irrespective of the source. A heart doesn’t necessarily break only in case  of  romantic involvement, it can break  even when a smile is not returned, when someone is rude to you for no rhyme or reason, when  someone ignores you or insults you, when mediocrity engulfs you  or when you feel insulted courtesy  your own thoughts and imagination or when your friendship is not understood or  even when you fail to reciprocate  someone’s love and affection or friendship.  In short a heart break involves your own self and your equation with yourself. The cause or source or faces may vary but ultimately it’s a reflection of what you are. Some casual relationships become significant and some  close  relationships  where you spent time and emotions amount to nothing. Heart’s pain is such where suffering and suffocation can increase  so much that sometimes situationally  even a stranger’s smile work wonders and our own folks concern seem meaningless. Heartbreak is part of daily life   but with  over importance we magnify it. Heartbreak  gives  an opportunity  for maturity.  The whole world may suddenly fall in love with you but what matters is whom you love but sometimes whom you love may not even understand it’s value but that doesn’t mean you will change your feelings and emotions.   Love  does mean expectations  and when you love you just love unconditionally  and  love is not a matter of explanation or quantity but intensity and  its quality matters.  With trust and faith  in yourself you can fight al l your battles alone.  Heartbreak  reflects  your self and your sentiments  and it is often beyond  explanation and beyond understanding  of regular folks.  Heartbreak gives dimensions to your personality and life  and brings  flavours to your individuality where you can say bitter is better and sorrow makes a better tomorrow.

The New age Wisdom!

When Life is in a transformation mode it involves a lot of pain, disappointment & frustrations and lot of relationships and equations change as people stop relating with you and vice versa. You may think you are understood but you may be having  the illusion of being understood. You can't look back at the past or even the people who couldn't adjust or stay with you as cutting off from people means cutting off totally. You can't be possessive about anyone when you have no time even for basic relationships. People loving you and you loving people are two different things just like being alone and being lonely don't mean the same. When you decide to have great self-expectations you are actually choosing great pain. Intentions and feelings of abundance count in everything and when you use it as a benchmark you are bound to flourish. No matter how much regrets and sorrows are a  part of your life if you have set your standard high nothing else matters except your goals. Patience and strengths come automatically when your intention and efforts are clean and clear. Feelings and emotions are a magnet and eventually will attract the right people, circumstances, success and happiness of your choice so follow your heart and let destiny take it's course as in the long run what is right and best will happen and you will get what you deserve and that will  be in synchronization with what you want if you have a never give up attitude. People who love don't think; after all loving is a way of life and you do it only for yourself even if is not valued the way you would want. Everyone can't get everything and you have to adjust as an individual all the time and you may not even realize your potential but that doesn't mean you are entitled to stop making your persistent efforts. It's better to die living than to live dying!