Relationships!

There comes a time when you have no time for your personal self and you want to be off getting close to people not because you no longer have emotions but because you don't want to remain vulnerable and get hurt. Perceptions and realities are different, people can assume whatever they want to. You cant be explaining yourself to people who don't matter. Everyone can't be part of your life and vice versa. There are people who want to break a relationship in an instant and there are people who are mature enough to always make a relationship work even when the other person is hell bent on behaving small or breaks the ties on the drop of a hat out of own whims and fancies. Relationships maintenance is totally your choice. Lesser the number of people in your personal circle better it is for your individuality, after all you have to save not only your time, energy and aura but also save yourself from your own self as more than outside world you affect yourself with your own thoughts, feelings and imagination!

Emotional sensiblities

Emotional sensibilities!

There comes a time in life when there is just no scope for any emotional attachments. Even the emotional attachment you have had may become null and void in a moment. To get close to people is not everyone’s cup of tea. It may be not the best situation to have no friends or social circle but for some individuals that is the only condition to keep sanity especially when they do everything with their heart. When there are minimum attachments and minimum emotional commitments you can focus on your career although you may miss out on growing up in certain areas. When you trust you simply trust and trusting has no conditions but when someone lets you down because you trusted more than that someone deserved it hurts. But then when high expectations are raised people do change and with goodness the effect does rub off. The catch is to focus on the positives and not negative aspects. Experience hate but only temporarily and translate the energy into constructive energy. Your energy is you and life is all about loving yourself first. If you love yourself than only you can be a potential friend or lover and there is just no limit for friendship, love and all matters of the heart and nothing is right or wrong. It’s foolish to expect everyone to understand your level of maturity and emotions. You just can’t forget that people have limited microscopic thought process, mediocre emotional understanding and baseless logics which can’t change. You may have abundance of love but receivers may have small reception powers.  People may prick your ego on the drop of a pin but then still you can be perfectly fine and pamper yourself with self-love. No one is indispensable in your life and vice versa and nothing changes much just because some people are no longer part of your life or some relationships which meant the world break in a moment or when the dust on the glass of relationships is cleared and clarity surfaces. Relationships are just a part of life and not LIFE. If you gave over importance it’s your foolishness and not of anyone else.  LIFE eventually is all about your own equation with yourself and your maturity to deal with people and relationships following your heart and still being unapologetic about it”

Goodness hurts!

.When your goodness is insulted just because you allowed a person in your vicinity it really hurts. It takes a lot of self-control to not to over react even when you feel the desire to hit back the person in question. Small people will remain small forever no matter what just like you can never convert thorns into flowers. When your expectation and judgement was wrong only you are to be blamed and no one else. If you let the other person become the cause of your misery it's your problem, the other person will have sound sleep any which ways. You have to consciously choose to keep mediocre people at bay because if you don't they will take advantage of your goodness and sooner or later run you down. It takes a lot of guts to stay indifferent to the cause of misery even though you may sulk and suffer alone which is as natural as a sunrise. It is ironical but true that you can't change your roots, heart, way of getting affected by everyone and everything but at least after numerous disappointments you can at least control your words, attitude and behaviour pattern and tell yourself that what goes up comes down and people who do wrong by choice in full consciousness may be riding on the success and glory today but eventually won't be successful forever. LIFE settles scores eventually even before human beings do!

Express love!

When you realize you took someone you loved but hardly expressed for granted, when you realize you caused permanent damage to someone who deserved only love it hurts! You can't undo the damage done over the years in words and actions but still corrective behaviour can make you feel at peace. Love is something which need to be nurtured and not something which you never took out time for. Love and friendships does wonders to people making them live a life of meaning. Sometimes you need to express your feelings and emotions not just because it may make you feel good but because it may make others feel freshness of life. For you love may be just a part of your life but for others it may mean everything. When what you want doesn't happen you feel pain so just imagine the pain of the person who thought your time and affection is the motivation of the day and you chose to ignore totally. Love and relationships need a piece of your heart so just express don't suppress!

Human Love acceptance!

Human love gives freshness to life. Love in any form should be accepted and encouraged. A smile from a gym buddy, a compliment from a stranger, fatherly love from a father figure, words of encouragement for what you like, an assurance for your being talented, being told you are the best when you are not in a good mood, standing by you without being judgemental, understanding your silence and words, trusting you even when you don't deserve, raising your expectations and enabling you to live upto them are all small things but make a big difference. We spend 80 percent of our time with 20 percent of the same people every week be it personal or professional life so we should choose people carefully where we can. Human love when you give or get you become better & young and it gives magnetic appeal to your personality and aura. When you value love in your life it changes you, your environment, the people who come in contact with you and optimism becomes a way of life. Life and relationships are all about understanding your own feelings & emotions and following your heart at all times!

Understanding the necessity

When your love and affection is not understood you can't feel disappointed rather you can only sympathise with the people who actually never understood you. Assuming to understand and understanding are two separate things. You have to take everything in your stride when your own feelings and emotions become a let down.....Your own peace of mind is important and when you get a fresh inspiration who sets on fire the storm inside you it does make a difference. At some point of time in your life (when it is least expected) someone may show you a new perspective in everything just by sheer grace, aura, maturity and words effortlessly and make an impact on your life that you no longer remain the same. To learn and absorb something extra ordinary from every person you come across is a fine art and sometimes the impact is so huge that it changes your mind, heart, lifestyle and perspective giving you the right direction!

Human Love

Human love can rejuvenate unlimited feelings and emotions. Everyone is very sentimental in nature but everyone is not expressive and understanding. When you love someone you love, there are no if's and but's and when suddenly someone expresses what value you have in his or her life and acknowledges your affection and make confessions when it was not anticipated or expected it really leaves you speechless. Love is inside in everyone in abundance. Not being expressive and demonstrative doesn't mean there is no love in fact people who don't verbalize everything speak volumes of love in their expression and attitude and it is their biggest strength and a secret of staying positive and maintaining maturity!