Pain is as real as day and night!

Pain is part of life and is as common as having a dent in the car. There is nothing to overreact or magnify about pain. Dissecting or postmortem of the cause or source of pain is immaterial. People are mere coincidences, the cause of pain is your own imagination, reaction and your own sentiments. Suffering doesn't make anyone feel great but if you can transform it and stop complaining it makes life better. Accepting pain as it is raw and uncensored is better than denying it. Mental emotional wounds have advantage over physical wounds as the owner can hide them successfully from whosoever  he wants to. Everyone's life is an open book but it depends upon the individual as how many pages he or she wants you to read. No one is interested in others life unless its really a matter of the heart as everyone is chasing their own desires, dreams and goals and that leaves no scope for any relationships. People who carry their heart like a medal get injured quickly but still they don't change their nature, habit or behaviour pattern. Pain is as real as day and night. Very few learn from pain and those who learn surely understand pain of others and their compassion gets healing qualities automatically!