Friendship is all about emotions and illusions!

Friendship is an intimate matter. It’s not necessary or compulsory to have friends. One can spend a life time with right close acquaintances and work related people too. First of all most important is your own friendship with you. There has to be individuality first. Friendship is also an invitation to heart break as people don’t understand the way you should be understood. People who let you down are the people who are closest to you so what is the need to be close beyond a point. Too much of happiness and peace is intolerable.  Emotions are hardly valued and it’s hilarious that some people think love and friendship can also be bought. Feelings and emotions can make or break you. In the long run a person who has feelings and emotions in abundance suffers the most as on the drop of a hat one suffers in silence. What may be a small or insignificant thing for everyone may mean everything to an emotional person. An emotional person‘s microscope is different and he knows to be above right wrong, good and bad because heart means the world and there is just no logic in love and friendship. What everyone will consider trivial and forget he would remember and damages done are damages done forever. A sensitive person suffers not only when he is wrong but also when he is right that is the irony of his life.  Friendship is an illusion in direct proportion of your thoughts, feelings and emotions, earlier you understand that better it is for you. It becomes difficult to tolerate yourself at times. What friendship day the world talks about when in regular relationships too people lie as conveniently as drinking water.  Friendship is an illusion and everyone sulks and not everyone has the guts to accept one’s sensitiveness.  It takes lot of gut to accept your failures with a smile and  everyone  can’t understand the pleasure of putting everything at stake  and people will never understand that sometimes pain is the only pleasure you have in life.  Even without experience one can surely understand it just like you don’t need to taste poison to know that it kills. If just by basic experiences and imagination one can feel such strong emotions what he would do if he lets his heart rule can you even imagine?